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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2016 20:53:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I welcome the first day of summer by attending a yoga and music workshop with musician and yoga teacher Jack Harrison. We lie down and begin with some breathing exercises. Jack strums his guitar, recites poetry and sings. Then he &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/my-song/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I welcome the first day of summer by attending a yoga and music workshop with musician and yoga teacher Jack Harrison.</p>
<p>We lie down and begin with some breathing exercises. Jack strums his guitar, recites poetry and sings.</p>
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<p>Then he takes us through a powerful yoga sequence. No music plays now. All we can hear are Jack&#8217;s instructions and our breath.</p>
<p>My breathing deepens. I feel strong, present and peaceful.</p>
<p>Afterwards, we sit in a circle and sing. For the most part, I close my eyes and really get into it.</p>
<p>Occasionally, I open my eyes and appreciate what&#8217;s in front of me. The fantastic Jack Harrison playing guitar. And a group of people joyously opening their hearts together in song.</p>
<p>Next, Jack suggests that we sing any tune we feel like.</p>
<p>&#8220;Dissonance is beautiful,&#8221; he insists.</p>
<p>&#8220;Some of us were told as children that we weren&#8217;t good singers. I was kicked out of the school choir when I was a boy,&#8221; he laughs.</p>
<p>&#8220;But singing is easy,&#8221; he says with a smile.</p>
<p>Many of us spend our lives trying to fit in and appear normal. We&#8217;re told how to live and what&#8217;s expected of us.</p>
<p>But today for a change, we&#8217;re being encouraged to be different. We&#8217;ve been given licence to sing our own song in a way that&#8217;s right for us in this special moment.</p>
<p>We start quietly and self-consciously. But before long, we become louder and more confident.</p>
<p>I realise that it&#8217;s much easier to sing in unison. It&#8217;s actually harder to be different. But I&#8217;m determined to find my own song.</p>
<p>I go with the feeling. I put judgment aside. I allow myself to be me.</p>
<p>Somewhere between dissonance, unison and harmony, I hear my own voice. Tears prickle behind my eyes. Jack&#8217;s right, it is beautiful.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2015 12:26:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>A couple of friends recommended watching First Dates, a television series that films real first dates in a London restaurant. I&#8217;ve since watched the entire first season and it&#8217;s totally addictive. As I binge on this hilarious reality TV show, I laugh &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/first-dates/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple of friends recommended watching <em>First Dates, </em>a television series that films real first dates in a London restaurant. I&#8217;ve since watched the entire first season and it&#8217;s totally addictive.</p>
<p>As I binge on this hilarious reality TV show, I laugh a lot. But I also shed a few tears.</p>
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<p>I can see the beauty in every single singleton. The daters differ in appearance, creed, age, personality and life experiences. But they&#8217;re so similar too.</p>
<p>They&#8217;re all self-conscious. They all have fears and insecurities. They&#8217;ve all lived through hardship, be it heartbreak, illness, loss or rejection.</p>
<p>And they&#8217;re all holding on to hope. Hope that they&#8217;ll finally find connection, affection, partnership and love. They all want to share their lives with that special someone.</p>
<p>One man, who&#8217;s been single since his diagnosis with HIV five years ago, admits: <strong><em>&#8220;I just want to be loved.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>This heartwarming show highlights how quick we are to judge our potential partners. <em>I don&#8217;t like h</em><em>is receding hairline. I prefer women with smaller bums.</em></p>
<p>Interestingly, we&#8217;re also quick to judge ourselves. <em>I&#8217;ll lie about my job because I don&#8217;t want to put him off. She&#8217;ll never agree to a date because of my height. I&#8217;m punching above my weight with her. I&#8217;m not as skinny as the other girls.</em></p>
<p>I believe that when we stop judging ourselves, we cease judging everybody else. When we love and accept ourselves, we become free to love and accept others.</p>
<p>I also believe that we get what we give. So when we give love, we receive it.</p>
<p>I have a friend who loves her dogs more than anything. Recently, I spent an evening at her home. One of her dogs burrowed his way into my arms. Later, he lay on my friend&#8217;s lap, his body splayed open, as my friend hugged and kissed him.</p>
<p>It struck me that this dog is full of love. He&#8217;s open and trusting and loving. And it&#8217;s such a good feeling to have him in your arms.</p>
<p>And my dog-loving friend is perfectly at ease with herself. She&#8217;s open and happy and loving. And when I&#8217;m around her, I am too.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s so easy to give love to a person who&#8217;s open to receiving it. And when someone gives love with unconditional abundance, being a recipient of that love feels effortless and unselfconscious.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s when the fear takes hold and the thinking starts and the barriers come up, that we block the love. We&#8217;re afraid to give love in case it&#8217;s thrown back in our faces.</p>
<p>But my advice now is to give love. Give love to yourself. To your friends and family. To your pets and your plants. To everyone you encounter.</p>
<p>Be yourself. Be open. Be present.</p>
<p>Laugh. Flirt. Have fun.</p>
<p>Give love. Accept love. Be love. And I guarantee that you&#8217;ll experience love.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;ve rejoined <em>Tinder</em>. Again.</p>
<p>P.S. When searching for an image for this article, I browsed the internet. Suddenly, I realised that I&#8217;d forgotten to type &#8220;Love&#8221; in the search bar. <em>&#8220;Have I put love in?&#8221;</em> I asked aloud.</p>
<p><em><strong>Have I put love in indeed.</strong></em></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2015 22:53:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The other day, I was listening to a show on Hay House Radio. The topic was the importance of having your own personal cheerleaders &#8211; friends who will rally around during the tough times and cheer you on to succeed. One of &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/good-cheer/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other day, I was listening to a show on <em>Hay House Radio</em>. The topic was the importance of having your own personal cheerleaders &#8211; friends who will rally around during the tough times and cheer you on to succeed.</p>
<p>One of the women referred to a time she was speaking at an event. She asked the audience: &#8220;Who here has someone they can call when something goes wrong?&#8221; Everyone immediately raised their hands.</p>
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<p>Then she posed a different question: &#8220;And who has someone they ring up when something really great happens?&#8221; A few hands went up slowly.</p>
<p>Interestingly, people seemed reluctant to share good news with their nearest and dearest. I wondered about this.</p>
<p>I imagined asking the audience to explain their hesitation. They would probably confess to not wanting to brag. Some would worry that their happy news would make others feel miserable about their own lives. Others wouldn&#8217;t want to invite envy or begrudgery.</p>
<p>And a few people would be afraid of &#8220;jinxing&#8221; it &#8211; admitting that things were going well would put a curse on it and cause everything to come crashing down around them. And they&#8217;d all suffer terribly and die an excruciating death. Or something equally calamitous.</p>
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<p>Why does it seem more acceptable to regale others with our misfortunes than with our achievements? As children, we were warned not to get too big for our boots. <em>Who does (s)he think (s)he is?</em> was an oft-heard phrase describing anyone who dared to exhibit a dirty word called <strong>confidence</strong>.</p>
<p>Thankfully, I now think for myself and I&#8217;ve decided to work on my confidence and look for the best that life has to offer. I hope that the people around me wish me the best. And I wish them the best too.</p>
<p>There <em>is</em> actually enough good stuff to go around, despite what the superstitious old wives told us. One person&#8217;s success doesn&#8217;t guarantee somebody else&#8217;s failure. It doesn&#8217;t work that way. Believe in abundance and you&#8217;ll be rewarded with it.</p>
<p>The older I get, the less patience I have for people who wallow in negativity. Of course, we&#8217;re all entitled to a shoulder to lean on during the challenging times. We all need someone to vent to.</p>
<p>But there comes a point when you&#8217;ve got to change the record. Stop complaining and start brainstorming.</p>
<p>What you focus upon multiplies. That&#8217;s why I like to spend time with positive people. That&#8217;s why I give daily gratitude for all the wonderful things in my life.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s why, when I heard this discussion on <em>Hay House Radio</em>, I was instantly able to think of a friend who I can contact as soon as something amazing happens. I can gush and glow, boast and bow, and do a little self-congratulatory dance in front of this friend because she&#8217;s the type of person who genuinely loves when good things happen.</p>
<p>And she&#8217;s not just a fair-weather friend. When I told her about a funeral I was attending yesterday, she instantly offered to accompany me. Her mere presence beside me in the car as we drove towards the church was enough to make me feel secure.</p>
<p>And guess what? I&#8217;m going to brag just a little more. I&#8217;m lucky to have other friends and family members who I can go to with my happy-clappy tales <em>and</em> with my woe-is-me soliloquies. And I know that I&#8217;m that go-to person for lots of people too.</p>
<p>Do you have a personal cheerleader for when something fabulous happens in your life? Do you have someone to call upon when you&#8217;re feeling overwhelmed? And are <em>you</em> that special someone for anybody? In both circumstances?</p>
<p>Do you concentrate more on the feel-good or are you a victim to negativity? Remember, wherever you put your energy is where the energy will go. Think about it&#8230;</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2015 19:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m currently rereading Anodea Judith&#8217;s excellent book Eastern Body, Western Mind. This morning, I completed an exercise on the Inner Family that I&#8217;m going to share with you. Anodea Judith suggests making a list of the various parts of yourself. You might &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/the-inner-child/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m currently rereading Anodea Judith&#8217;s excellent book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1587612259/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1587612259&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=bettethansurv-20&amp;linkId=TJRQAPNWUFYAPWAJ" target="_blank">Eastern Body, Western Mind</a>. </em>This morning, I completed an exercise on the Inner Family that I&#8217;m going to share with you.</p>
<p>Anodea Judith suggests making a list of the various parts of yourself. You might include the inner child, the clown, the achiever, the lover, the critic, and so on. In my case, I listed the lost child, the inner child, the lover, the romantic, the fearful one, and the warrior.</p>
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<p>Next to each name on the list, write a few words describing how you perceive this part of yourself.</p>
<p>For example, I could describe the inner child as playful, curious or innocent. The lost child might be scared and alone. The lover is open, present and sensual. The romantic believes in love. The fearful one anticipates that bad things will happen. And the warrior is stunning, strong and skilled.</p>
<p>Now, write down what you think each part wants. My inner child wants to experience. The lost child wants to be loved. The lover wants to make love. The romantic wants to connect. The fearful one wants peace. And the warrior wants to live.</p>
<p>Ask yourself how often these parts succeed in getting what they want. How realistic are their desires? And what can be done to bring them into wholeness?</p>
<p>In order to bring the various parts of myself into wholeness, I can connect with people, including myself. I can be open to relationship and to love. I can meditate, rest and be still. I can be in nature, surround myself with beauty, and go on adventures. Using all of my senses, I can make love with life every single day. I can be present, really live, relax, allow and enjoy.</p>
<p>The final part of this exercise is to look at who relates to whom. For instance, does the critic inhibit the artist? Or does the clown entertain the sad inner child?</p>
<p>I realise that the parts of myself that I listed seem to go in pairs. The loving, playful inner child is the lost child&#8217;s reassuring companion. The confident lover and the dreamy romantic are in perfect partnership. And the warrior protects the fearful one and makes her feel safe.</p>
<p>This is an interesting exercise. Try it and let me know how you get on.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2015 19:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Three things I&#8217;m taking away from my Life Coaching session this morning: 1. I&#8217;m going to work with the &#8220;negative&#8221; voice that regularly pipes up with annoying statements like: &#8220;You&#8217;re not good enough.&#8221;  I&#8217;m going to coach this voice. I&#8217;ll listen to &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/for-a-reason/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Three things I&#8217;m taking away from my Life Coaching session this morning:</p>
<p><strong>1.</strong> I&#8217;m going to work with the &#8220;negative&#8221; voice that regularly pipes up with annoying statements like: <em>&#8220;You&#8217;re not good enough.&#8221; </em></p>
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<p>I&#8217;m going to coach this voice. I&#8217;ll listen to it and be there with it and ask it how it feels to believe such a statement.</p>
<p>I understand that it&#8217;s there for a reason. It&#8217;s actually there for my good as it&#8217;s showing me what I need to look at in order to heal. And so I give it, I give myself, compassion.</p>
<p><strong>2. </strong>I&#8217;m not going to make assumptions or take things personally (And even if I do, I&#8217;ll be aware that I&#8217;m doing it).</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t know why anyone does or doesn&#8217;t do something. I don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s going on in their heads or what issues they have in their lives.</p>
<p><strong>3. </strong>I&#8217;m going to stop focussing on all the things I can&#8217;t do and all the things I&#8217;m not.</p>
<p>Instead, I concentrate on my uniqueness and on the wonderful talents that I&#8217;m bringing to the world around me. We&#8217;re all different. <strong><span style="color: #ff00ff;">There&#8217;s beauty in that.</span></strong></p>
<p>And a fourth one that didn&#8217;t arise from the coaching session but that has made itself known to me in a more obvious manner than ever before:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">It&#8217;s all unfolding perfectly. </span></strong></em></p>
<p>I simply have to get out of my head and drop into my heart. Let go of control. Release fear. Relax.</p>
<p>I am present. I am open. I trust. And I realise that everything I need is provided for me. I allow, accept and give gratitude.</p>
<p>Sometimes, what comes isn&#8217;t how I would have imagined it. It may even hurt as I attempt to resist it.</p>
<p>But the learning and growth that emerges from what does come makes me realise that everything happens for a reason. And the incredible people and gifts that appear are better than anything I ever could have planned.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2015 19:15:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Last night, I read Marianne Power&#8217;s most recent post on the six basic human needs. Yes, it may seem like I&#8217;ve become obsessed with this woman and maybe I have. But not in a lesbian way. In an admiring, respecting, fellow-blogger-and-self-help-enthusiast way. &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/basic-human-needs/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night, I read Marianne Power&#8217;s <a href="http://helpmeblog.net/i-want-to-be-significant/" target="_blank">most recent post on the six basic human needs.</a> Yes, it may seem like I&#8217;ve become obsessed with this woman and maybe I have. But not in a lesbian way. In an admiring, respecting, fellow-blogger-and-self-help-enthusiast way.</p>
<p>Anyway, I found Marianne&#8217;s post really interesting. Marianne is regurgitating self-improvement guru Tony Robbins&#8217; work and I, in turn, am regurgitating Marianne&#8217;s work. But we&#8217;re all putting our own spin, experience and insights into it.</p>
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<p>So here&#8217;s my take on Marianne Power&#8217;s take on Tony Robbins&#8217; take on the six basic human needs. First of all, let me give you the six basic human needs, in Marianne&#8217;s words:</p>
<p><em><strong>&#8220;Need 1: Certainty/Comfort<br />
</strong></em>Our need to feel in control and secure.<em><strong><br />
<strong>Need 2: Uncertainty/Variety</strong><br />
</strong></em>Our need for variety, surprises.<em><strong><br />
<strong>Need 3: Significance</strong><br />
</strong></em>We all need to feel important, special, unique, or needed – some of us get a feeling of significance from our work, some do it by having a flash car or by getting a thousand Twitter followers. You can get significance by having more or bigger problems than anybody else (moi) and criminals get it by the attention they get for their crimes.<em><strong><br />
<strong>Need 4: Love &amp; Connection</strong><br />
</strong></em>We all need love but many of us are terrified of it and settle for connection, through our romantic relationships, friendships, our pets, walking through nature.<em><strong><br />
<strong>Need 5: Growth</strong><br />
</strong></em>If you’re not growing, you’re dying – whether that’s growing your business, your relationships, your education etc.<em><strong><br />
<strong>Need 6: Contribution</strong><br />
</strong></em>‘Life’s not about me; it’s about we,’ says Tony, who reckons that giving is what life’s all about.&#8221;</p>
<p>Marianne suggests (or maybe it was Tony Robbins who suggested it but I can&#8217;t keep up) asking yourself the following question:</p>
<p><strong>OUT OF THE SIX HUMAN NEEDS WHICH TWO HAVE YOU BEEN VALUING THE MOST?</strong></p>
<p>For me, Significance has definitely been one of my biggest needs. I want to feel special and I get that feeling by writing this blog, taking selfies, getting likes on <em>Facebook,</em> doing well in school and college,<em> </em>and having men fancy me. I like to be liked. I love to be loved. And I want other people to think I&#8217;m nice, pretty, talented, funny and desirable.</p>
<p>Love and Connection is also high on my list of priorities. I don&#8217;t feel comfortable unless I&#8217;m connecting. I achieve this connection by communicating with others, meditating, and communing with nature. I seek connection through affection, intimacy and even technology. And through all this connection, what I&#8217;m really hoping to experience is love. Pure, beautiful, all-encompassing, unconditional love.</p>
<p>The next question is: <strong>WHAT ARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF VALUING THOSE NEEDS?</strong></p>
<p>The consequences I face are feelings of sadness, loneliness, rejection and depression when I delude myself that I&#8217;m alone, insignificant and unloved. I don&#8217;t deal well with criticism. And rejection is almost physical in its ability to wound me (hopefully not for much longer as I&#8217;m participating in this <a href="http://betterthansurviving.me/2015/04/03/oh-danny-boy/" target="_blank">Rejection Therapy game</a>).</p>
<p>In order to protect myself from the shadow side of significance, love and connection, I withdraw. I shut down. Or I try to be perfect because I convince myself that no one will love me otherwise.</p>
<p>Now, ask yourself: <strong>WHAT WOULD BE YOUR TOP TWO NEEDS NOW FOR YOUR LIFE TO TRANSFORM? </strong></p>
<p>For my life to transform, I have to prioritise Growth. Growth keeps you moving, learning, improving and evolving.</p>
<p>When I stop being so hard on myself, I can acknowledge that I actually am growing in all areas of my life. I&#8217;m attending courses, seeing a Life Coach, reading, making progress in my career, and changing the way I relate with life, other people and, most importantly, myself.</p>
<p>I also choose to focus on Contribution. Significance brings up a competitive streak in me. It&#8217;s all about being better, smarter and prettier. The need for significance fuels a striving to be more popular, more talented, more successful, more loved.</p>
<p>But life isn&#8217;t meant to be a competition. We&#8217;re all in this together. To be really spiritual about it, we&#8217;re all one.</p>
<p>Once I understand that, I want to cooperate and collaborate rather than compete. I want to help and share and give.</p>
<p>Tony Robbins says that Growth and Contribution are the needs that make you happy and fulfilled. He calls them Spiritual Needs, while the first four are the Needs of the Personality.</p>
<p>I actually felt chuffed that I&#8217;d got it &#8220;right&#8221;. There I go racing back to my need for Significance. But I&#8217;m aware of my tendencies now and the reasons behind them. I&#8217;m learning. There&#8217;s growth in that. And I&#8217;m sharing all of this with you guys. So I&#8217;m contributing.</p>
<div id="attachment_4505" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://betterthansurviving.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/img_4359.jpg"><img class="wp-image-4505 size-medium" src="https://betterthansurviving.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/img_4359.jpg?w=300" alt="Random image of my friend and I dancing on a mountaintop" width="300" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Random image of my friend and I dancing on a mountaintop</p></div>
<p>Now to go off on a completely different tangent, today I remembered Marianne&#8217;s challenge to smile at strangers. I thought: <em>That&#8217;s easy. I&#8217;m always smiling at strangers. </em></p>
<p>Until I walked past an attractive man on a bridge this morning. I considered smiling at him but he was scowling. Cool, handsome scowling but scowling nonetheless.</p>
<p>I realised that smiling at strangers isn&#8217;t easy at all. I found it hard to look at this man, let alone smile at him.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to tell you that I felt the fear and smiled anyway. But I didn&#8217;t. I bottled it. But I <em>did </em>look at him, which is more than I&#8217;d have done before. Baby steps.</p>
<p>Another realisation I had on that bridge is that it&#8217;s easy to smile at strangers when they&#8217;re already smiling. Handsome, scowling men don&#8217;t invite smiles. But smiley, kind-faced people do. So I think we should all smile more.</p>
<p>And to waffle on for just a little longer, after last night&#8217;s post on wanting men to beat down my door (metaphorically of course), I received a random text from a man I went on a date with once. This &#8220;putting it out there to the Universe&#8221; stuff might actually work.</p>
<p>So, here goes&#8230; <em>Are you listening, Universe?</em> I would like a successful career that I love and that helps others to be all that they can be. I would like an abundant, happy life filled with peace, love, fun, laughter, beauty, friendship, enjoyment and adventure.</p>
<p>While I&#8217;m at it, I would like to be financially secure, own a great house, and go on lots of amazing holidays around the world. I would like health, wealth and well-being for myself and all my friends and family and the whole wide world.</p>
<p>And if you&#8217;re still listening Universe, I would like to get swept off my feet by (and have a healthy, wonderful relationship with) an older, available but equally smouldering version of Zayn Malik.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Last night, a Facebook friend shared Doreen Virtue&#8217;s post about how the full moon and lunar eclipse is the perfect time to release anything toxic or completed from our lives. I&#8217;m ready to release everything that is no longer serving me well. I release: &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/release-me/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night, a <em>Facebook </em>friend shared <a href="http://www.angeltherapy.com/about" target="_blank">Doreen Virtue&#8217;s</a> post about how the full moon and lunar eclipse is the perfect time to release anything toxic or completed from our lives.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m ready to release everything that is no longer serving me well. I release:</p>
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<li>Anxiety about an imagined future.</li>
<li><em><strong>Fear of rejection. Fear of not being accepted, wanted, liked or loved.</strong></em></li>
<li>Old patterns, fear-based and limiting beliefs, negative thoughts, judgements and attachments, and any stagnation and resistance that have been blocking or damaging me.</li>
<li>Harmful habits, behaviours and relationships.</li>
<li>Physical and emotional pain and suffering.</li>
<li>Trauma, hurt, grief, sadness, shock, disappointment and anger.</li>
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<p>I&#8217;m willing to release:</p>
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<li>Any barriers that I&#8217;ve constructed. Now that I&#8217;ve dismantled these barriers, peace, happiness and love are flowing freely.</li>
<li><strong>Shame. I am enough. I am loveable. I am worthy.</strong></li>
<li>Fear of failure <em>and</em> fear of success.</li>
<li>Unhealthy needs and desires. I am now present to my wholeness and perfection.</li>
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<p>I happily release:</p>
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<li>Worry that I&#8217;m lacking in anything and I accept abundance into my life.</li>
<li><strong><em>Codependency, control and guilt from my interactions with others.</em></strong></li>
<li>Preconceived assumptions or historical perceptions about people, places and things. I am present, open and loving to them as they are, now.</li>
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<p>Finally, I release myself from the grip of my ego. I observe it with interest and humour as it plays out. I learn from it and so I evolve.</p>
<p>What are you willing to release? As Doreen Virtue says: <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong><em>&#8220;Trust that when you close one door, a better one opens.&#8221;</em></strong></span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday, I texted a few of my like-minded friends to share my most recent awareness. The importance of other people. Relationships (with a partner, friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances) accelerate our growth and teach us more about ourselves than all the &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/other-people/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday, I texted a few of my like-minded friends to share my most recent awareness. The importance of other people.</p>
<p>Relationships (with a partner, friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances) accelerate our growth and teach us more about ourselves than all the spiritual retreats, self-help books, and hours of meditation and counselling ever could.</p>
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<p>Other people serve as mirrors. They reflect back to us how we feel about ourselves and the beliefs we&#8217;re holding about life.</p>
<p>Every single person who enters our lives is there for a reason &#8211; to show us all the barriers we&#8217;ve placed around ourselves. Once we become aware of these barriers, we can remove them and open ourselves to love.</p>
<p>In <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060927488/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0060927488&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=bettethansurv-20&amp;linkId=7AXRDZTH6NN5PKWI" target="_blank">Marianne Williamson&#8217;s book </a><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060927488/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0060927488&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=bettethansurv-20&amp;linkId=7AXRDZTH6NN5PKWI" target="_blank">A Return to Love</a>, </em>she writes about the two main emotions we experience &#8211; love and fear. Fear closes our hearts. Love opens us up to an easier, brighter, more wonderful world.</p>
<p>Up until recently, I had assumed that I preferred to be alone. I&#8217;d spend most evenings on my own, reading, writing, and watching TV. I walked alone, jogged alone, cycled alone. I meditated and did yoga alone. I took myself for coffee. I wandered alone in nature and took pictures. I holidayed in the west of Ireland. Alone.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m proud of my independence and I&#8217;m content in my own company but sometimes a stray pang of loneliness manages to slip through my carefully constructed armour. I realise now that I was confusing strength with a refusal to budge out of my comfort zone.</p>
<p>I really believed that I did better at life when I was single. Romantic relationships seemed to blaze into my world. They were quick and exciting and dangerous.</p>
<p>They were so out of my control that I feared I&#8217;d be engulfed in their flames. Then they died out, leaving me to tend to my burns.</p>
<p>I missed the warmth and beauty of relationships but I also felt blessedly relieved to be alone again. Alone, I was in control.</p>
<p>My longest romantic relationship was with my now ex-husband. Everything since then has never made it past the four-month mark.</p>
<p>I led what I thought was a balanced life. I had oceans of time to work on myself. <em>I grow more when I&#8217;m single,</em> I convinced myself.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m glad of the time and space I&#8217;ve had to heal and to flourish. I agree that one must love oneself and have a full and happy life before one is ready to enter into a healthy relationship.</p>
<p>The thing is, I kept waiting for one (i.e. little old me) to become perfect, conscious and enlightened. I forgot that this life is a journey. And on this arduous yet rewarding adventure, we&#8217;re constantly learning, evolving and recalibrating.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s nice to share some of that journey with our fellow travellers who can also feel lost and who are also searching for meaning. And there&#8217;s more laughter and intimacy to be had on a path walked with more than one set of feet.</p>
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<p>After living alone for four years, I now have two housemates. I&#8217;m also spending more time with my fabulous friends. And I love meeting new people. How different we are fascinates me. How similar we are humbles me.</p>
<p>I understand now that living involves other people. For what is a life without company, support, affection and passion?</p>
<p>Other people highlight the areas we need to work on so that we can peel off yet another bullet-proof layer. It&#8217;s so much lighter and freer to let go of these heavy burdens that weigh us down and close us off. But it&#8217;s scary to be so exposed, so vulnerable.</p>
<p>I know that I have difficulty letting people in. Asking for help and believing I deserve to have my needs met is a challenge. But it&#8217;s a challenge I&#8217;m willing to accept.</p>
<p>Communication is also an area I&#8217;m working on. Recently, I detected a pattern of mine. When the going gets tough, my instinct is to bolt. To get out that door and never come back. But where&#8217;s the maturity in that? Where&#8217;s the learning, the growing, the compassion? Where is the love?</p>
<p>Other people have an amazingly frustrating knack of triggering the emotional reactions that I used to resist and get angry about. Now, when someone does or says something that provokes me to feel hurt, annoyed or defensive, I remember to breathe into it.</p>
<p>I feel grateful for this issue that I need to deal with. I look at <em>my </em>feelings about the incident, which leads to an understanding of why I&#8217;m feeling the way I do. Then, I let go and bring myself back to the present moment.</p>
<p>This is a very new practise for me, by the way, but it&#8217;s a revelation! I highly recommend it.</p>
<p>Today, I&#8217;m more open than ever before. This translates into a heightened enjoyment of life, a deeper appreciation of beauty, and more fun, peace and connection.</p>
<p>I am, thankfully and in Melody Beattie&#8217;s words, codependent no more. Nor am I locked in a distant land of me, myself and I.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m travelling on this awe-inspiring path called life. And it&#8217;s rich with billions of souls from whom I can learn so much, and with whom I can share a luminous journey.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Last night, as I flicked through an old copy book in search of an empty page, I stumbled upon a Fairy Story that I&#8217;d been asked to write as part of an Inner Child workshop I&#8217;d taken part in a &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/fairy-story/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night, as I flicked through an old copy book in search of an empty page, I stumbled upon a Fairy Story that I&#8217;d been asked to write as part of an Inner Child workshop I&#8217;d taken part in a while back. Here it is&#8230;</p>
<p><b>Once upon a time, there was a beautiful, perfect little princess called Sharabella. There was something about this girl that shone brilliantly from within. You could see it in the sparkle of her eyes and her fun-loving laugh.</b></p>
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<p><b>People loved to be around Sharabella. She didn&#8217;t even have to do anything. People just felt better after having been in her presence.</b></p>
<p><b>This was Princess Sharabella&#8217;s magic gift. She simply had to be herself and others were healed. </b><strong>All was well in this magical kingdom.</strong></p>
<p><strong>However, there came a time when Princess Sharabella was needed in a very different kingdom. A kingdom that was full of pain, sadness and suffering. </strong><strong>The Powers That Be decided that Princess Sharabella could help transform this kingdom&#8217;s pain into love and beauty. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Sharabella landed on this kingdom filled with peace and optimism. What Princess Sharabella hadn&#8217;t counted on was how much skepticism and resistance she&#8217;d face. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Slowly over time, poor Sharabella began to doubt her magic powers. She started to wonder if she really was as perfect and beautiful as she&#8217;d once believed. </strong></p>
<p><strong>It was such a struggle trying to change these people&#8217;s way of looking at things so Sharabella began to shut up and shut down. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Her beautiful light dimmed more and more over the years until one day, when The Powers That Be paid this dark, gloomy kingdom a visit, they no longer recognised beautiful Princess Sharabella. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Sharabella was tired, grey and depressed. When The Powers That Be finally realised who she was, they asked her what had happened. </strong></p>
<p><b>At first, Princess Sharabella didn&#8217;t know what they were talking about. <em>&#8220;This is who I am now,&#8221; </em>she stated gruffly. <em>&#8220;I&#8217;m ugly and useless and this kingdom would be better off without me.&#8221;</em></b></p>
<p><em><strong>&#8220;But once upon a time, you were Princess Sharabella &#8211; the most beautiful, </strong></em><b><i>luminous, perfect creature, with the gift of healing others with your mere presence,&#8221; </i>The Powers That Be exclaimed.</b></p>
<p><strong>Nobody realised that an outsider had overheard their conversation. A crippled old lady had witnessed the whole exchange. She was moved to tears by Sharabella&#8217;s despondence. If a Princess despised herself so much, what hope did the rest of them have?</strong></p>
<p><strong>The old lady couldn&#8217;t help but speak out. <em>&#8220;Excuse me,&#8221; </em>she interrupted as she leaned on her walking cane. <em>&#8220;I&#8217;m confused. I have to ask: What is a Princess doing in this horrible kingdom? This place is filled with hate and destruction. Us citizens know no different. We&#8217;re used to this life. But you? I urge you to get out. Save yourself, while you still can!&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>The lady trembled with urgency while The Powers That Be stood there, uncertain as to how to proceed.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Slowly, Sharabella looked up, her eyes brimming with tears. She started to sob &#8211; loud, uncontrollable gulps of emotion. </strong></p>
<p><strong>As she cried, her cloudy, grey eyes turned to bright blue. Her ashen complexion became rosy pink. A brilliant light flickered, then started to beam out with such magnificence that everybody dropped to their knees in awe.</strong></p>
<p><strong>In this moment, Sharabella realised that she was not the ugly, depressed woman she had grown to believe she was. She remembered that she was the beautiful, perfect Princess that was her birthright. </strong><strong>It had simply become unclear and difficult to express in a kingdom that had never accepted such perfection. </strong></p>
<p><strong>If she could heal people in her old kingdom, she knew she could do it here too. But not if she continued believing that she was ugly and worthless.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Suddenly the old lady, inspired by what she had just witnessed, ran away, excited to tell her friends and family what had just happened. </strong></p>
<p><em><strong>&#8220;She forgot her walking cane,&#8221;</strong></em><strong> Sharabella said. And Princess Sharabella and The Powers That Be laughed and laughed.</strong></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Over the past few days, there&#8217;s been a lot of talk about the coming year. I&#8217;ve been asked about my new year&#8217;s resolutions, I chose my Word for 2015 (Free), and yesterday, my friend and I played a thought-provoking game which highlighted &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://wellofbeing.ie/stepping-into-2015/">read more<span class="meta-nav"></span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over the past few days, there&#8217;s been a lot of talk about the coming year. I&#8217;ve been asked about my new year&#8217;s resolutions, I chose <a href="http://betterthansurviving.me/2014/12/30/word/" target="_blank">my Word for 2015</a> (Free), and yesterday, my friend and I played a thought-provoking game which highlighted our fears and desires.</p>
<p>My new year&#8217;s resolutions are to be present, to be brave, and to love. Last night in the pub, a friend asked me if I had any more concrete goals, things that I could tick off my list with satisfaction. She mentioned wanting to read and go to the theatre more. Another friend would like to participate in a project that excites her and to find a new hobby that raises her adrenaline. Somebody else listed off the countries she wants to visit.</p>
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<p>I paused. The other evening, my mother had asked me about romantic relationships. &#8220;I have to sort my life out first mam,&#8221; I declared. It&#8217;s difficult to think about hobbies, classes, holidays and dating when I feel like I&#8217;m currently in limbo. I need to figure out my career and where I&#8217;m living.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;ve set up a session with a great Life Coach for next week. I finally feel ready to be completely honest about myself, and about the fears, issues, blocks and beliefs that are limiting me. It&#8217;s <em>my</em> life and I deserve to live it to my full potential. I want to grow and move forwards. I&#8217;m also going to exercise more.</p>
<p>Yesterday evening, I called over to a friend. I asked her what her Word for 2015 is. She decided on Peace<em>. </em>She explained that there is no greater thing than Peace. In Peace, you are present. You can be more creative and efficient. In Peace, you break through fear. &#8220;Yes,&#8221; I say excitedly. &#8220;You can&#8217;t feel fear <em>and </em>Peace at the same time. What a great Word!&#8221;</p>
<p>Then, my friend suggested a wonderful exercise. She took out a page and divided it into 16 pieces. On each slip of paper, we wrote things like: <em>I desire. I fear. I need. I am. </em></p>
<p>We took turns in finishing these sentences. It was interesting to see what came up for us and how much everything overlapped. It enabled us to become really clear on what we need to focus on (and let go of) for the coming year. I realised that I have to love and accept myself no matter what.</p>
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<p>Many people use this time of year to reflect, plan and motivate themselves. The way things have worked in my life has been quite synchronistic. I&#8217;m starting afresh right at the beginning of a new year. I&#8217;m releasing old patterns that are no longer serving me. I&#8217;m willing to change.  And I&#8217;m open to new opportunities.</p>
<p>And despite the fear, negativity, confusion and over thinking that I&#8217;ve fallen into over the past month, I have also really enjoyed the holidays. And I&#8217;m so grateful for the lovely people I surround myself with.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve appreciated and been present to the simple things in life like laughter, music, movies, nights out, sleeping, eating, exercising, reading, writing, being in nature, and spending time with friends and family.</p>
<p>The other night, I caught the end of a documentary called <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00I6C3QJG/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B00I6C3QJG&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=bettethansurv-20&amp;linkId=7CUJYRYUAV3JSJEP" target="_blank">Unhung Hero</a>. </em>The documentary-maker was struggling with insecurity and he considered giving up on the film altogether. His mother gave him the following advice: <strong>&#8220;With growth there&#8217;s pain.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>I feel that I am on the cusp of something great. I&#8217;m about to take a massive leap forwards. And it&#8217;s natural to experience fear when you&#8217;re challenging yourself to step into the unknown.</p>
<p>And so I step into 2015, a never-before-seen year, with freedom, presence, courage, love and peace. I wish the same for all of you. Thank you for reading. You make this labour of love all the more worthwhile.</p>
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